![]() ![]() It’s best to avoid discussing about your past. Don’t open your mouth too wide or make weird noises while chewing your food. ![]() It does make a difference, trust us! After all, you’re not here just to eat, right? And remember your table manners. Make sure you eat or sip slowly and interact more. Show that your happy to meet him/her, but don’t be over-excited. You take the initiative in starting a topic. But, if s/he is showing positive signs, you know where you’re heading. You might not want to be humorous if the opposite person has declined a smile on your first attempt. Your actions to a certain extent depend on the vibes you get from your partner. You could crack some smart and witty jokes if you’re bored or just excuse yourself to the loo and return with a smiling face. Remember, you are there to know the person, so only focus on that. Also, refrain from talking about life after marriage. Instead, show that your responsible and respect confidentiality. But, please do not reveal all your secrets on your first date. It is good to talk about positive things, as it makes you and your partner feel comfortable. Also, always place an order with elegance. Start off with talking about work and then gradually move on to topics like family, interests, etc. So, all you men out there, do try this the next time you plan to meet your partner. Women, mostly like it when her man pulls out a chair for her at the coffee shop or restaurant. Shake hands if you and your partner are comfortable and compliment your partner on her looks and dressing. So, watch out for your actions and words. Sometimes, it happens and we don’t realise it. Now, there’s a difference between being confident and acting snobbish and over-confident. ![]() Show that your confident about yourself, about your behaviour, dressing, etc. ![]() Well, that’s the most important ingredient! Just like how important salt is to food, confidence is to a person’s persona. When we say be honest, we obviously don’t mean sound harsh, rude and overtly opinionated. This will give you an idea about how well the two of you get along, whether or not your thought process match, etc. Also, make sure you appear polite and humble and most importantly, be honest. Remember, you are meeting your prospective spouse, so please greet him/her with a smile on your face. You can just take a corner table and chat for hours over a cup of coffee. In fact, there can be no better place than a coffee shop for your first meeting. Don’t try and act like you are too busy in life to think of all this. Be involved and together you guys can decide a place to meet up. On your first meeting, don’t think your partner is going to do all the planning and have some surprise waiting for you. So, accordingly you can plan your meeting and think of topics to talk on. Make sure you know some basic things about him/her like what is his/her favourite cuisine, likes, dislikes, topic of interest, etc. You always have time to know a bit about your prospective partner before you decide to meet up. But, the good news is that you can actually appear more confident and smart with these simple tips…ġ0. On meeting your prospective partner for the first time, you are bound to feel nervous and apprehensive. ![]()
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